Hello everybody
I was kept in short school trousers up until I left home which was most embarrassing as my friends and relatives regularly saw me dressed in such a manner.
My bedtime was supervised by my sister who even though was much taller, was in fact, two years younger then I was. Consequently, she was allowed to punish me with over the knee spankings and most humiliating, she was permitted to get me ready for bed.
She dressed me in the nightdresses she wore when she was a little girl. They were very long and frilly, especially at the neckline and the cuffs and I looked ridiculously babyish wearing them.
No matter who was there, I was still undressed and made ready for bed and told to go and say night-night to my mother and my sisters friends who mother allowed to witness my bedtime humiliation.
When I misbehaved I would be stood in the corner with my hands on my head until my mother put me over her lap. After taking down my short trousers and underpants she would spank my bare bottom scolding me about my infantile behaviour. I would then be put into a nappy and plastic pants, a babyish nightdress and marched straight upstairs to bed all the while being told that since I had acted like a three year old I would be treated like one.
Once upstairs I was put into bed with a dummy tied into my mouth, a blankie and teddy bear would be given to me before the curtains were closed.
My girlfriend at the time use to make fun of me being treated in that way, eventually she broke up with me for being an immature little boy.
I can explain more about my upbringing and routines and how my wife became involved in my babification.
My e-mail address is jonesphillip295@gmail.com
if anyone would like to discuss
Thanks for sharing this Philip Seems you were a very well brought up young man.
ReplyDeleteGood evening John I was brought up the proper way as all little boys should be,not saying I liked my routine but I was turning into a brat and thats when my dear Mother decided things had to change.
ReplyDeleteTo be fair I was jealous when my Sister came along as I no longer had all the attention and thats why I started to play my Mother up and started having tantrums and hissy fits ,so after my Mother spoke to a couple of friends and my Aunts more so Aunt Margret
as she was a nursery nurse and advised my Mother of how to handle me,as at that point I had never had a smacked bottom or a proper bedtime routine all that soon changed.
Thank you for sharing.
ReplyDeleteI am very surprised you were allowed to have a girlfriend
ReplyDeleteHi Anonymous
ReplyDeleteMy girlfriend was not a girlfriend in the true seance of the word,she was a girl who attended the same Sunday school as me and
I was in the boys brigade and she was in the girl brigade,so my Mum asked her Mother if she would like to come round for tea one afternoon,we also attended the same school and we became very good friends,and yes she did see me get punished,and ready for bed and use to escort me home after school had finished but she got fed up with me not being allowed out to play as my routine was the same Homework tea bath bed,she did how ever remain very good friends with my Mother and my Sister
When I was put back into short trousers at weekends at 19 it was the late 70s when males did not wear shorts as casual wear so they were definitely a sign of being a younger boy. I looked less than 19 but I still looked too old for short trousers. Those who expressed an opinion to my mother thought I was 13 or 14 and there were very few schools at that time where boys of that age still wore short trousers with their school uniform. I think some thought I was simply big for my age or that I was "backwards" and had been kept down in a lower class at school so had to wear a junior schoolboys uniform.
DeleteLike some other older boys who had to wear shorts, I got used to doing so and accepted the treatment which was combined with early bedtimes until I left home at 23. I rarely appeared in public in shorts and most "punishment weekends" were spent at home indoors but this meant I was seen by visitors who often wanted to know why I was dressed as a child when I was wearing shorts or indeed my pyjamas if it was after seven. My mother would often provide the answer along the lines that since I insisted on behaving like a naughty little boy I needed to be dressed as one, although often she would further embarrass me making me explain this to her visitors myself.
Then I fully understand that. My mother does not dress me in shorts for school but at home and other places is a different matter.
DeleteWhat was your bedtime after 20 ?
ReplyDeleteWhy nappies and plastic pants? Necessity or just to further humiliate you ?
Good morning Anonymous my bedtime was 630pm but earlier if it was thought nessaceary,being bathed and dressed ready for bed was very embarrassing to say the least,the nappys and plastic pants where for added humiliation and to make sure I had no reason to get out of bed.
DeleteAt weekends I was still put in short school trousers to do chores around the house if I made a fuss then I would feel my Mothers hand across the back of my legs as a reminder to behave so any visitors popping in could see my red legs,my Mothers best friend would comment oh I see Phillip has been a naughty boy yes my mother would say and for being so he will be going to bed at 4pm today